Hi
As you no doubt know, finding a place to overnight in your van in the UK is not so easy as in the rest of Europe.
There is a guide by MMM magazine that lists places where you can park your motorhome in the UK, some enlightened places allow overnight parking too.
The latest link I can find is here:
http://www.browseandread.co.uk/mmm-parking-guide/#1
If you find yourself down Devon way, one of our favourite sites is Woodlands Grove (woodlandsgrove.co.uk) near Dartmouth. Lots to see in the area and they do a very good 'adults only' deal (5 nights for £54) if you fancy a rest for a few days.
Have a good trip.
Paul
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As to the clubs being regimented ... I belong to both and have never found it so ... but I have never used any of their big sites where I suppose they need rules to keep from it all descending into anarchy ...
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